I've mentioned that Hubbs and I have the baby four days a week. The other two or three days he's usually with his Aunt Lisa. Baby Mama usually sees him about once a week. Well...
Last night I went with Conner to the bathroom because even though he's fully potty trained he still always wants company. He took off his shorts to pee and when he was done I grabbed them to help him put them back on. And then I noticed that he wasn't wearing underwear. He got dropped off to our house without any underwear on.
Now..other than the fact that he wasn't wearing underwear, he had a bad rash on his butt because he has eczema and allergies and has super bad skin. We combat this with a host of skin creams and allergy medicine as well as also trying to make sure that he is in clean, cotton clothes.
So I asked him why he wasn't wearing any underwear. "Mommy and Shaun and Aunt Lisa didn't have any underwear for me."
"Oh, well lets go put some on."
"I'm so glad you always have underwear for me Jennimamma!"
Of course I do. Because I do your laundry and make sure you have clean clothes. I don't constantly drop you off in dirty clothes, sweats and long sleeves in the summer time, or shirtless in the dead of winter. Because I love you.
Seriously. Am I overreacting? Am I under reacting? Hubbs constantly tries to tell her to get her act together. This past winter we bought him two winter coats and both were lost and never seen again. He had pneumonia as a three year old. His mom is going to school to be a nurse. What the hell is going on? It isn't rocket science. He's a baby, you have to take care of him. He is more important than you are- forever and always.
Any stepmoms out there deal with this? Any moms who have this problem with their ex? It'd be cool to have some legit feedback.
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